Every couple has a dream of being parents after their marriage. But they should cautious always about carrying and facing the normal delivery. What is the most endless part of becoming a new parent? It is the waiting period of nine months that seems unending-a period. The dos and don’ts of pregnancy and the effects and after-effects of the baby are described here. So, you have to follow these ten golden rules for future parents. But things are not so difficult if you plan this event properly. Here are 10 golden rules for future parents.
10 Golden Rules for Future Parents:
Don’t give a confine what anybody says.
Remember one thing: Being parents or grandparents of one, two, or even a dozen children do not make a person knowledgeable about the intricacies of pregnancy or parenting. Just do the “ignoring” tactfully and take care for not offend the well-wishers by telling them that they are out of tune with changing times. They are only trying to help. So, you would need all their emotional support before and after the birth of your baby.
Be Well Informed
Find books on topics such as pregnancy and parenting, written by real experts and not by self-proclaimed gurus. Before buying a book, check the author’s credentials. Make sure that they have the requisite medical degree to offer you a good advice. Also, check the style of writing to see whether it interests you. Medical facts, if told in a dry manner, can be a real drag to read.
Nowadays, the internet plays a vital role in sourcing information. Parenting sites, notice boards, and discussion groups give the interesting information. Again, you will have to sieve that information because there is no shortage of “quack” websites. Websites of international health organizations, medical professional associations and reputed hospitals are usually safe as sources of reliable information.
Be Positive in your outlook.
Having a baby is, indeed, one of the greatest joys of life. The caring and sharing of parenting are among the most emotionally enriching facets of human life. Embrace this event with joyful enthusiasm.
Be prepared for changes in your lifestyle.
Yes, the baby is going to make you change a lot. But isn’t change a rule of nature? Don’t be over-anxious about those sleepless nights, changing of nappies and feeding problems associated with babies. You will manage to cross those bridges when you come to them. Don’t take it as very difficult.
Take Care of Health
The care for the mother and the baby inside her is the prime concern during the pregnancy. Regular antenatal check-ups, proper nutrition, necessary nutritional supplements (iron, folic acid) and timely vaccination (against tetanus and hepatitis B) are easily ensured by selecting a reliable healthcare provider.
Select a doctor and devise a plan for pregnancy and delivery
Choose a doctor who’s not only has a good reputation, but also has enough time for you and is sympathetic and sensitive. Give the doctor full cooperation. Do not hesitate to discuss your concerns, fears and even minor worries bother you. Let these discussions involve both the husband and the wife.
If the prospective mother has any chronic illness such as diabetes, high blood pressure, asthma or thyroid problems, give the details of previous investigations and treatments. This way, the doctor can anticipate likely complications and devise a plan to counter them.
Strictly follow all medical instructions.
Be friendly with your doctor.
Instead of just maintaining a strictly professional relationship with your doctor, try and be friendly with them. It almost always helps build trust and confidence.
Be open-minded
Don’t have fixed ideas about the nature of delivery, such as natural or “normal” delivery and medically assisted delivery, such as a caesarean. Don’t have fixed ideas about having a baby of a particular sex.
Despite the advances in medical technology, no one can predict every case with certainty.
Develop your concept of the family
Both of you-the husband and the wife-should be clear about the size and type of family you are planning, keeping in mind your present and plans. It is important that both parents support each other emotionally.
Pregnancy and parenting are emotionally demanding states for the mother and the father. So, work like a team.
Relax and enjoy
Being relaxed and happy is the essential condition of parenting. Being irritable and uptight about issues won’t help.
These are the ten golden rules for would-be parents. Follow these ten commandments, and you will be happy and confident parents when your bundle of joy arrives on D-day.
Disclaimer
Take it for informational purposes only. It has not taken from any researched study.